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Do you believe in ghosts? Whether you are a believer of the paranormal or a skeptic, a night out on a haunted ghost tour is sure to be a night to remember. Beyond Bizaare Ghost Tours has been voted as the #2 Ghost Tour in the West. They offer a 2 1/2 hour tour in which your tour guide will show you alleged haunted buildings, sites of ghost sightings, and tell the rich historical history of the town. As the tour begins you will be loaded up with your own ghost finding gear and then venture out with the experts who will raise the hairs on the back of your necks with spooky tales and inexplicable mysteries! If the tour gets a little too spooky, just hold on tight to your spouse and enjoy the time being cuddled up close together. Visit their website to schedule a tour. Book ahead - they are usually sold out!
Relationship Reconnection:
While these sorts of hauntings can be fun to explore, it is never fun to feel haunted by memories of past. It seems to me that the things I am most haunted by are things that I said in the heat of the moment that I did not really mean and later regret. It is really hard to take back what you said, and we all know how powerful words can be. They can affect us very deeply, and can really damage a relationship if we are not careful. In fact, Dr. John Gottman (author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work) gave some great advice on this area. Dr. Gottman explains that the marriages that last have a 5:1 ratio of positive vs. negative interactions. In other words, for every negative interaction in a relationship, you should strive to have 5 positive reactions. So, maybe a good goal is that whenever you find yourself saying or doing something negative to your spouse, strive to say or do 5 positive things for them.
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